We're Not Cool Enough if There is None Jealous with Us

              Have you ever think or thought these questions, "Am I cool enough to be called as cool kids?" or "Why I can't be as cool as them?". Maybe those questions usually cross our mind. But, let's ponder upon these awhile, "What things that I already done to help myself to make us as a cool kids?" Is that enough? Or not yet? Always fail? Should I try again? Ugh, tired.

"Mistakes are proof that we are trying" -TheTeensRules

                What coolness look like that everyone can get jealous with? Cool thing that worthy of jealousy is something that we did with work hard, honesty, sincerity, kindness and simplicity. Usually, we see some people look so damn perfect. But, we must remember, that perfection is God's business and nobody is perfect. Cool thing that I told you here is how smart are we to make us looks perfect with everything that we have.

               

                When we looks cool enough in some people's eyes. It must be there are a lot of people who get amazed or jealous. So, don't be afraid if there is people who mock us with everything that we did, if we think it is good and didn't hurt nobody. Oftentimes we see something good or bad from the result but don't you remember the process that you have done? Maybe we forgot it because feeling of deep distress cause by disappointment. But, actually the process is really important to make us a better person and we looks cool enough. Yay. Looks  cool in our society never gone wrong as long as our purpose is good (not being arrogant because what we have). So don't worry to try, try and try.

                So, how to look cool in our circle? Should I bought some new luxurious stuff? Should I hangout with my friends to mall or cafe every day? Should I get dressed and wear some jewelries? No you shouldn't. Uhm, It's okay to do those things but, do so in moderation if you want. And you might try these things:

                1. Being thyself is important

                We know when we try to be thyself, there will be a lot of pressure from the outside and it's constantly developing. But it's really important for you to always be yourself from the inside out because when you know yourself deeply, you are more likely to experience a fulfilling and rewarding life. Without knowing yourself and establishing those boundaries, you can easily be pushed around and end up on a dirt path.

                2. Get update with the latest info

                Being "in the know" make us look up-to-date and being the center of everything. It'll be give us interesting things to talk about. Or maybe if we know everyone, we will know the latest drama but say nay to spread the rumors ;)

                3. Get update with the latest style and know yours

                Dress well and know your style. We don't need to buy a lot of dress every week. But, we can mix and match our clothes. Maybe we have some old clothes and we didn't realize it that we have a thousand ways to style it up. There are a lot of tutorial in Youtube which tell us how to do it well.

                4. Get out from your comfort zone

                "What holds us back in our zone of comfort is often a fear" -The Positivity Blog.


                 Get out from our comfort zone can bring us to our freedom from our boredom. How to get out from our comfort zone? Try to have a new acquaintance, make them your friend, take any chance, educate our self, try something new, face your fears, etc.

                5. Have your own good detail

                Even the tiniest of details about you can make some people jealous. Let's think about the tiniest thing that we can do. What about good handwriting? What about our good smell? People might remember us better.

                6. A big smile won't hurt

                Have you smile today? Smile is considered to be and expression of joy or happiness. Smiling increases the value of attraction. Some people might think that we are a lucky person. It's like we are so happy even we have so many deep secret. It's better to smile that depressed or losing faith.. Because if we stay in our comfort zone (sadness), it will not going to help us in overcoming the problem. Have a bright day!

                7. Avoid gossiping

                Is your face get more pretty if you mock another girls face? Is your score get higher if you tell them that they're stupid? No, honey! So just stop it.

                8. Being a master in your own interesting hobby 

                You know it's really cool to be you. Maybe you feel much more comfortable being a geek or nerd and  show them prove them that you can do it. You aren't just say that you can do some but you must to prove it. Isn't necessary to show them off, just down to earth and keep learning so you can be the best one.

                9. Read some

                I know how it feels when we know something much more better than our friends. We don't need their applause. It just feel awesome to be thyself if we know some and there'll be a lot of advantages if we know more about our world.

                10. Socialize with others

                Where are they come from, what kind of people are they, what is their tribe, we don't care of it. This is our world and we need to try to socialize with anybody. If you want more than acquaintance, don't forget to make sure that they're okay, they're a good person for you.

Hope you guys have a great day! Xoxo

Good Luck!